Past Life Regression explained

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Past-life regression can be used to heal or resolve fears and relationship problems, as well as health issues or compulsive behaviour.
When many people think of past-life regression, they immediately think about reincarnation and indeed, there will be people who look at it in this way.

But if the idea of reincarnation doesn’t fit with you, then you should see that it’s often about the subconscious mind giving you an idea which can help you to heal.

Patients are put into a deep relaxation and their past life or lives are accessed. I have recently had two good examples of this: in the first one, my subject (who is childless) found herself going back to past lives in classical Egypt, mediaeval times and World War Two.
When brought out of the deep-relaxation state, she said she now realised that during her 1940s life, she and all of her children had been killed in an explosion.  Ever since she’s been little, she had wanted kids but never understood why – now she does. It was a big relief to her to see that it is upsetting her more than she thinks.
TanyaAnother example involves someone who was frightened of being on their own; under deep relaxation, it became clear that this was because they were imprisoned in a past life.
Once the recollections are finished, the therapist will spend time with the person to help decide what they have learnt from the experience. Examples of healing can be that physical symptoms go; phobias like claustrophobia can be healed and or explained.
Sometimes, we see people we know now in this life taking on different roles in past lives and this can help us understand or heal difficulties in relationships. Trauma that has been buried can often be identified and arrangements can be made to help in addditional sessions.
The process is safe and mostly very relaxing and helpful. If you would like to find out more about these sessions, please call me on 0121 439 2810.

Past Life Regression

As well as age regression there is Past life regression.
Past life regression is a really fantastic process. Sometimes people try everything to heal or resolve a problem and until they try this they are not successful.
TanyaIt can be used for fears, relationship problems as well as patterns, health issues or compulsive behaviour.
Many people are cynical about whether the regressions are real or imagined. As it heals so many people I for one am not really worried as long as it works.
People are put into a deep relaxation and the past life or lives are accessed. People should go with the flow and with help from the therapist this can be a useful experience.
Once the recollections are finished the therapist will spend time with the person to help decide what they have learnt from the experience. Examples of healing can be that physical symptoms go; phobias like claustrophobia can be healed and or explained.
Sometimes we see people we know now in this life in different roles and this can help us understand or heal difficulties in relationships.
In the pre talk or consultation the Therapist will check if there is a particular issue / find out why the person wishes to be regressed. Sometimes healing can be used during the session.
The process is safe and mostly very relaxing and helpful.
Sometimes trauma that has been buried can be identified and then arrangements can be made to help with other sessions.
At times people feel they may be over something but when they are regressed they realise that their sub conscious mind re affirms that there may be an issue to clear.
If you would like to find out more about these sessions please give me a ring on 0121 439 2810

Age Regression – who can it help ?

Many of you that follow my blog know that I deal a lot with Transition work. Sometimes it is difficult to identify what is worrying or causing people distress. They just know that they have a block. Many people suffering with life event or trauma have no idea what it stems from and will often think they are over something. They will also know that something is wrong but cannot pin it down.
DSC_8885To protect ourselves from upset we will often bury something in our sub conscious mind. We may even have no recollection at all of the specifics. Many people suffering with Trauma have difficulty with close relationships and often sabotage them to keep safe. They are often over sensitive to other peoples moods. They have learnt this to keep “safe”.
Sometimes they are triggered and have no idea why. Triggers can be people, places, and weather conditions; often they can be like a complicated detective novel.
Age regression therapy is one way of accessing these specifics.
The sessions are about two hours long.
Initially the Therapist will talk you through your issues or just make sure you understand the process.
If you just want to go with the flow to find out what comes up that is fine as well.
The Therapist will use deep relaxation to help you access your sub conscious mind. The technique is
Third level hypnosis and it is very relaxing. You are always able to stop if you want to so do not think
TV Hypnosis!!!
TTanyahe Therapist will take you back in simple stages to access your memories and help you to heal
any patterns that emerge before you finish the session or talk with you about what is best for you
next.
You may need a few more sessions but sometimes one is enough.

Unhealthy Relationships

As a Transition Coach I come across a lot of people who are unhealthily dependent on each other.

I also come across the fall out when children of people in unhealthy relationships are damaged.

time for changeMany people tell me of their need for their parents love and approval and think they are at fault.

In reality they are the offspring of a marriage that is in trouble.

Look at your own relationship or that of someone you know and consider the following:-

Your moods depend on x. You cannot be happy without x

You have strong emotional reactions to x opinions, thoughts feelings and judgements

You worry and think about x problems

You analyse their motives and feelings

You ponder what they are doing thinking or feeling

Your attention to them stops you from having your own interests, hobbies, activities or career or you drop everything else that is good for you if x disapproves and will not come with you.  If you do have anything going on it is always linked to them

You are afraid of them rejecting you so you continually please them

You are anxious about doing things alone

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TanyaLiving in the past or future and not the present is another unhealthy sign

They say when a co-dependent dies someone else’s life flashes before them!!!!

If this sounds familiar or you are the relative or child of someone like this feel free to give me a ring

Visit In-transition.co.uk or phone 07778441367

More on Co-dependency

In my last blog I gave some scenarios of a co-dependent. If you know someone who is or you think you are yourself please phone for advice. This is now very common but most people are unaware. As a Transition Coach I see many people who have underlying problems related to this

TanThere are three types of co-dependent personality types.
According to the specialist Karen Horney there are different neurotic types
1) The first neurotic compliance type has a tendency to need affection and approval. They have a need for a partner who they believe will make them happy and fulfil all their expectations and wishes. They restrict their own behaviour and expectations within narrow borders underestimate their potential and live an inconspicuous life.
2) The second neurotic aggression has a tendency to need power and dominance over others and have contempt for weakness. They need to exploit and manipulate others viewing them as objects to be used. They need social recognition or prestige.
3) The third are neurotic withdrawers. They need to be self-sufficient and independent so they avoid close relationships. They feel superior to others and need to be perfect worrying about possible errors and they need to feel superior to others

These people are compulsive, driven by anxiety and get out of proportion to reality.
When people start to work on themselves they start to recover but it is very difficult to do this without help.
The signs that you are a healthy non- co-dependent adult are:-
Happiness does not depend on others
Self-esteem and confidence return
You have your own power and pursue your own goals
Like yourself
Have a capacity for intimacy and interdependency –

time for changeIf you are worried that you are a co-dependent then give me a call on 0121 439 2810 for a free consultation

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As a Transition Coach helping people over life blips the two main barriers to getting people to where they want to be are getting to people so late they have become overly anxious or are experiencing depression and will not … Continue reading

Depressed after losing your way ?

One of my clients Becky left work due to a medical condition. She started to feel depressed after losing her job.

She lost her way about the future!

Tanya I spent the first two hour session identifying with Becky what was important for her and what she clearly desired.

She had experienced some really unhappy life events and trauma which had not cleared.

At the second session we agreed an Action Plan which included a way of getting Becky resourceful enough to cope.

She started swimming again and getting back in touch with friends. After this we identified what transferrable skills she had and what she enjoyed about work.

The next step was to identify any blockages to moving on.

Becky agreed that she would attend therapy sessions for post trauma stress before coming back for more Transition work

DSC_8885This has been a real success. In all Becky had five coaching sessions and six therapy sessions.

I’m happy to talk things through with you – and remember the first session is free ! Give me a call I don’t judge and will help you get through it

Helping the Change Process

 

Dave had recently left the Police Service. He had planned to stay on for another five years after his official retirement. Then a little known regulation called A19 was invoked due to budget cuts and he had to leave with little notice, all his plans up in the air.

 

He had been a Police officer for 30 years and was really shocked at how quick this happened. He loved the service and his job and the feeling of being part of a “family” of colleagues.

 

When he left he tried a few jobs through contacts but never really “settled “and felt really blocked.

 

When he came for his first coaching session we spent a lot of time looking at what he would like to achieve. Some of those outcomes were around enjoying his free time and getting a good work life balance. He also wanted to find a role that suited his transferable skills.

 

Dave was also stuck in the change process. He needed to understand that this can happen and it is normal but when people get stuck they need help.

 

TanyaWe agreed on the following areas to start with:-

 

Where he was in the change process and what would help him move through it quickly. Where were his friends and family in all of this and what did they think?

 

What actions he could take to ensure a better work life balance.

 

What transferable skills did he have and what options were available to him? Analyse these options and see which one he preferred.

 

What values did he have and how these could be used to decide on what cultures he liked to work in.

 

Identify any blocks he may have to success and where they came from e.g. previous role modelling, personality type, life event and what strategies would help move these blocks.

 

We reviewed progress and Dave made decisions on his future.

 

 

This took four sessions.

 

If I can help you through your ‘block’ please let me know

 

A life in Transition

My name is Tanya Leslie and I am a Transition Coach. That means I help people through life blips.
Blips can be anything from redundancy, retirement, divorce, bereavement or any change in
Circumstances good or bad e.g. birth of babies. Some people just need to do a life review and get a
Better work life balance.
TanyaA couple of months ago Gill came to see me for her first session. She had already been given some
Questions in advance to consider. We discussed the answers to the questions for a few hours and
agreed on five different areas of her life she would like to change.
She lacked confidence and felt down! This had steadily got worse in the last two years. She had
problems sustaining relationships and often sabotaged them by her own insecurities.
She also worked long hours in a job she did not like. Her social life was nearly non-existent and she
did little physical activity.
She did have other issues relating to a life event which had left her feeling insecure and low self
esteem.
We agreed a four session plan with a review of progress after that.
time for changeThe majority of people achieve a lot within four sessions and it is my purpose to make this available
in an affordable way for individuals.
Toward the last session we usually identify any blocks to moving forward and work on those issues.
Happily Gill is clear on her future and has got a better work life balance.
She is working toward setting up her own Business and has removed some limiting beliefs she had.

If you feel I can help you please contact me – your first consultation is Free.